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Region: US | Usage example: When push comes to shove, we will cancel the launch if safety fails.

When push comes to shove

Meaning

When a situation becomes critical and tough choices are needed.

Usage

Used to describe decisive moments.

Origin & History

Origin notes can vary by region and source; this page gives the commonly reported explanation and usage context.

Likely American sports slang referencing pushing and shoving.

Popular in the 20th century across sports and politics.

Related Idioms

Cross that bridge when it comes

Deal with a problem later when it arises.

Push the envelope

Challenge limits or experiment beyond norms.

Cross that bridge when you come to it

Deal with problems as they appear.

More Idioms

Break the ice

To do or say something to relieve tension or get conversation going in a social situation.

Cut to the chase

Skip ahead to the most important or exciting part of something.

The ball is in your court

It is now your turn to take action or make a decision.

Throw in the towel

To concede defeat or admit a struggle isn't worth continuing.