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Region: US / UK | Usage example: Our argument is water under the bridge now that we’ve resolved it.

Water under the bridge

Meaning

Past events that are forgiven or no longer important.

Usage

Common in reconciliations and conversations about moving on.

Origin & History

Origin notes can vary by region and source; this page gives the commonly reported explanation and usage context.

Imagery of water flowing away to signify events that cannot be retrieved.

Appears in 19th-century writing describing past misfortunes being left behind.

Related Idioms

Water over the bridge

Something in the past that need not be fussed about.

Come hell or high water

No matter what obstacles appear.

Fish out of water

Feel uncomfortable in an unfamiliar situation.

More Idioms

Break the ice

To do or say something to relieve tension or get conversation going in a social situation.

Cut to the chase

Skip ahead to the most important or exciting part of something.

The ball is in your court

It is now your turn to take action or make a decision.

Throw in the towel

To concede defeat or admit a struggle isn't worth continuing.