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Region: General | Usage example: If the shoe fits, admit the mistake and move on.

If the shoe fits

Meaning

Accept an accurate description of yourself.

Usage

Said when someone is described accurately, even if uncomfortable.

Origin & History

Origin notes can vary by region and source; this page gives the commonly reported explanation and usage context.

Shoe fitting imagery used as metaphor for suitability.

Phrase used in 19th-century etiquette writing.

Related Idioms

The shoe is on the other foot

A reversal of roles or fortunes.

Bite the bullet

Accept an unpleasant task or situation that cannot be avoided.

Get a hold of yourself

Calm down and compose yourself.

More Idioms

Break the ice

To do or say something to relieve tension or get conversation going in a social situation.

Cut to the chase

Skip ahead to the most important or exciting part of something.

The ball is in your court

It is now your turn to take action or make a decision.

Throw in the towel

To concede defeat or admit a struggle isn't worth continuing.