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Region: General | Usage example: With the new job, the honeymoon is over and the real work starts.

The honeymoon is over

Meaning

The initial excitement has faded and reality weighs in.

Usage

Used when enthusiasm transitions to routine.

Origin & History

Origin notes can vary by region and source; this page gives the commonly reported explanation and usage context.

Originally about the period after a wedding when sweet feelings calmed.

Used in 20th-century relationship advice columns.

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