The honeymoon is over

Meaning

The initial excitement has faded and reality weighs in.

Usage

Used when enthusiasm transitions to routine.

Origin & History

Origins and dates here are approximate summaries. Many idioms have disputed or unknown origins, and not every date has been checked against a historical dictionary, so treat specific dates and stories as a starting point rather than a citation.

Originally about the period after a wedding when sweet feelings calmed.

Used in 20th-century relationship advice columns.