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Region: General | Usage example: Every relationship thrives on some give and take.

Give and take

Meaning

Mutual compromise or exchange.

Usage

Used to describe balanced cooperation.

Origin & History

Origins and dates here are approximate summaries. Many idioms have disputed or unknown origins, and not every date has been checked against a historical dictionary, so treat specific dates and stories as a starting point rather than a citation.

Trade or negotiation metaphor.

Used since the 19th century in social commentary.

Related Idioms

Give someone the cold shoulder

Ignore or snub someone intentionally.

Take one for the team

Make a sacrifice for the group's benefit.

Give someone the benefit of the doubt

Assume someone has good intentions despite uncertainty.

More Idioms

Break the ice

To do or say something to relieve tension or get conversation going in a social situation.

Cut to the chase

Skip ahead to the most important or exciting part of something.

The ball is in your court

It is now your turn to take action or make a decision.

Throw in the towel

To concede defeat or admit a struggle isn't worth continuing.